Distance: Irony of life

Ironies of life.

DISTANCE

It is a relative word.

You may be hundreds of kilometers away but you feel so close to each other and never felt alone.

You may be also only 2 feet away but you feel so distant to each other and still feel alone.

Choose

If you love someone ask them for nothing. Don't hold them from their destiny. Don't keep them from going off in search of their own answers. Don't ask them for commitment. You will know commitment is real when it is something given willingly, and not as something obligatory. Don't ask them for promises. If you are patient, if you have faith, you will know in your heart when the right time for promises has come.And when that time arrives, then you will see that you have both lost nothing by setting each other free, and have instead gained a richer,fuller life, a wealth of experiences, and a stronger certainty of your desires.But should they return to you, then life hasn't cheated you because no promises were broken. Your bitterness will not last long, and you will feel thankful and blessed that at the very least,this beautiful soul has colored your life, that knowing them has already made life infinitely more meaningful.By setting a person a free, you run arisk of them not returning. But always remember that you found them beautiful precisely because they are free. People are like sunlight. You can feel their warmth, and their glow, but "you can't hold them in your hand and keep them with you forever". People choose to stay. But a choice is made more meaningful when it is made despite so many other options.
- Tacsion

Huwag Kang Hihinto

Kapag di na maganda ang katayuan ay kailangan ng maglakad... Ang pagkamit ng balanse sa buhay ay tulad ng pagsakay ng bisikleta... Kailangan mong patuloy na pumadyak para makamit ang balanse at umusad... Huwag kang hihinto.

Kapag malabo ang kuha ng camera ay kailangan mong ayusin ang pokus nito at baka sakaling luminaw... Ayusin ang lente hanggang sa makuha mo ito... Kung mahirap at pagod ka na, pwede kang magpahinga pero... Huwag kang hihinto.

Kapag nagmamaneho may isang laging aral ang aking ama sa akin... "Wag ka magmadali... makakarating ka rin." Ito ay ginagamit kong gabay sa pang-araw-araw na buhay at hindi lang sa paglusong sa lansangan... Huwag kang magmadali pero hanggang sa makarating ka sa paruruonan ay... Huwag kang hihinto.

JDM

When you love, you give it your all even if you know you could be hurt. Loving is a risk. It is a gamble. You do things without being asked. You give yourself that could take a part of you forever. You do it without knowing if it will given back. Reciprocated. That’s why it’s called unconditional love. Loving a person makes you vulnerable. It destroys your checklists and logical reasonings. Those pre-relationship non-negotiables suddenly becomes negotiables. You adjust for your partner. You say sorry despite you are not really at fault. This is because you value the relationship more than your ego and your pride. You know you are in love when you let go of your ego and pride. Despite you are angry and hurt, you still care and think about the person. It hurts because you care so much for the person. You could not let go of the good memories you have made and shared together. You cannot easily throw those moments instantly. It hurts because your love one is now a part of your life and it feels that a part of you hurt your very self... and a part of you is now lost.

My heart is full @ 31

Very few people knew that the past year had been a survival year to me... I knew there was a problem... It was so big none of my partners combined can resolve it... We lived month by month... week by week... and up to day by day...

When you’ve dedicated your life to the dream you’ve built, it was painful to witness it slowly crashing down despite risking everything, your name, your life and even your family... I almost gave up... I almost gave up on life... But one thing held me up, it was God’s grace by reminding me of the people who love me and whom I love. Giving up on life is like giving up on God and the people who have faith in you.

Maraming salamat sa lahat ng taong naniwala sakin sa mga panahong ako mismo ay napanghihinaan na ng loob... Salamat brad Arvin Buensuceso, walang iwanan! To Mark Lico & James Mackay, no words can describe how grateful I am to both of you guys. To Ramil Maniulit and Armilla Ophelia, thank you alam niyo na kung bakit. To Jerome Dolom, salamat sa mga panahong wala akong pangkain at pamasahe pauwi... I’m doing this because I want the whole world to know how thankful I am to all of you! You guys gave me a lifeline...

At sa aking pamilya, halos tuwing umuuwi ako nag-iiyakan tayo sa laki ng problema. Kayo ang aking una at huling sandalan...

Higit sa lahat kay God... Grabe ka Lord! I did not understand then why we experienced what we experienced but I had faith. I always knew this was your plan and you have better plans for us... After surviving the lowest point of my life, I’m excited for what you have in store for all us!!! ❤️

Tuloy ang laban

Hindi ko alam kung saan ako magsisimula…

Ang alam ko lang ngayon ay nasa mas mabuting kalagayan na ako… Hindi dahil wala ng problema pero dahil tanggap ko na kung ano ang sitwasyon ko ngayon… Hindi man tulad ng dati pero masaya na ako kung nasaan ako… Kung ano meron at hawak ko… Mahirap pero laban lang… Sige lang… Sige lang ng sige hangga’t mas gumanda ang kalagayan… Hindi ko alam kung kailan pero isa lang ang sigurado ako, magiging mabuti din ang lahat…

Sa nagbabasa neto, salamat at umabot ka dito… Naglalabas lang ako ng nasa isip at puso ko… mga damdaming matagal kong sinarili… Kala ko hindi ako aabot sa punto na ito. Para makapagsulat ako neto ay ibig sabihin ay lumaban ako… hindi pa nakamit ang tagumpay pero nandito pa ako para makapagsulat… (Part 1)

#CoffeeHugots #HinugotSaKape

Waiter: Anong strength ho ng kape niyo?

Ben: Gusto ko matapang... Yung kaya akong ipaglaban...

Ang love life para kape lang...

Huwag mo pabayaan at baka lumamig!

Waiter: How do you want your coffee sir?

Sweet, Creamy or Bitter?

Ben: Make it bitter please... I'm used to it.

Waiter: Araw-araw kayo nagcocoffee sir ah.

Ben: Ah oo, para magising ako... magising sa katotohanan!

#Boom